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Dear Sugar,
My current boyfriend and I had a huge fight a week into the lock-down and we didn’t try to settle it on time. I decided to speak with my ex about it (we still have a good talking relationship) and he could understand all I was saying.
With the way he handled the matter, it made me realize how alike in minds we are. I think I may be falling for him all over again. He has even asked to come back, but, when I remember the bad moments with him and the reason why we broke up, it just doesn’t feel right to me.
Sometimes I try to compare both of them; my ex is very passionate and romantic while my current boyfriend is very logical and blunt. Even though I love my boyfriend’s sincerity, I really miss the intimacy I had with my ex. I’m really confused about all of it.
R.O
Dear R.O
As much as it looks almost perfect that your ex seems a little more considerate than your current boyfriend, look into the reason why you broke up in the first place. As opposed to talking more to your ex, try to resolve the issue between you and your boyfriend. Realise that the more attention you give to your ex, the less your boyfriend gets. Also, communication is key. You should consider having a talk with your boyfriend on ways to sort out your differences.
I hope you have a great new relationship.
Love,
Sugar