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Your honeymoon may have been very romantic- going from place to place, having fun, and sharing the best moments. There was always something to do, places to go to, surprises and a lot more. Unlike the real world where there's so much work, they are one of the best fantastical dreams come true. So it's understandable why you should feel blue after such an ecstatic experience.
The sharp 100 - 0 drop makes couples a lot more stressed, especially when they are to face the realities afterwards. If you're about to go on a honeymoon, almost ending one or just recently ended one, here are some ways you can overcome your blues after the honeymoon.
- Change your Routine
Going back to your old routine before your wedding makes everything bland. Make your new-found time worth everything. You can pick up hobbies and new activities along the way and make the best memories as you do. Choosing the right routine has a lot of advantages. One of which is the fact that you and your spouse are always looking forward to it.
- Make post-honeymoon plans
At the risk of getting bored very fast after the honeymoon, make sure you plan to avoid it. Whether it's starting something new, going for an event with your spouse, or learning a new skill, make it count!
- Take your time to adjust
Don't be hard on yourself. After your romantic trip, take a break before overwhelming yourself with work. Slowly ease into it. Take a few days to adjust with your partner by arriving on the weekend, or staying home for an extra day.
- Start your post-wedding tasks
Usually, there's hardly any time to do this after your wedding. So wait till the end of your honeymoon to send thank you notes, check your collection of gifts, change your surname and a lot more.
- Pay attention to Your relationship
Rather than keeping quiet about how you feel, talk to your partner. They may most likely have the same feeling. It makes it easier to plan together where you can both leave the blue side of life. You can also take this time to bond more with your spouse.
Even though honeymoon blues are normal, letting it stay that way can be quite unhealthy for your relationship. If you have any experience you'd like to share, feel free to comment on the box below.