5 Healthy Arguments to Prove your Relationship Is Going Great

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Relationships are an integral part of our human lives. However, arguments are bound to come up, and while arguments generally have a reputation as being bad for relationships, this is not always the case. Some arguments are actually healthy and are indicators that your relationship is going just fine.

Below are 5 of such arguments that prove your relationship is going great.

 

Money

It’s a known fact that money is the cause of most arguments in a relationship. While this is true, it does not mean that arguments about money are always unhealthy. 

On the other hand, shying away from talking about money is actually unhealthy. Healthy talks about money include conversations about how much your partner earns, working out a budget together, etc.

 

Emotions 

As humans, we feel a lot of emotions that we need to talk about. When it comes to relationships, arguing about how you feel is very important and quite healthy. 

In particular, arguments about how your partner’s actions and words made you feel are very important as they help to set a precedent for future interactions.

 

Real-life matters

Real-life matters include such topics as politics, sexism. Arguments about current events with your partner are also very essential as it helps you to understand their views or take about certain matters better. 

Arguments about issues ranging from politics to topics like sexism, racism, etc are healthy, and being able to engage in conversations like this is a sign that your relationship is on the right path.

 

Friends and family

It is also very normal to argue about friends and family, especially if the friends aren’t mutual. Just because you and your partner are arguing about friends and family does not mean that your relationship is doomed.

It is vital to talk about friends and family and how they fit into the frame of your relationship. 

 

Privacy 

In a relationship, it is not uncommon for one partner to feel like they are becoming an extension of their partner rather than their own person, and that their privacy is being infringed upon. 

That being said, arguments about privacy help to put healthy boundaries in place to help both you and your partner have a healthy relationship while still maintaining your individualities. 

 If you are having these 5 arguments, then you can be assured that your relationship is going great.

 

 

Written by Olaoluwa Olowu