Mr Sugar, my fiance and i have been arguing about our wedding plans. We are both of different religions and i have stated my wish to be married in a church to which is has refused. i told him even if we do a civil wedding, I would still like the pastors wedding to which he still adamantly refuses. I don't know what to do as this is causing a very big rift. Your response would be appreciated.
-Oy
Hello Oy,
Has your fiance given you a reason why he does not want to be wed in a church? Try to find out in a non-confrontational way what his reasons may be. However it does sound like your fiance is not very accepting of your religion and probably wouldn't be later in your marriage. I am sure this is very disappointing for you however, if neither one of you is willing to convert to the others religion or aren't respectful of each other beliefs then this may just may be a sign that it's time to move on.
- Mr. Sugar