I hate my engagement ring!

Hi Mr. Sugar, my fiancé proposed recently, and I absolutely hate the ring. I know it sounds superficial, but if this is a ring I am supposed to be wearing for the rest of my life, shouldn't I at the very least LIKE the ring?

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I am sorry you hate your ring. Unfortunately you have neglected to tell me why you hate the ring. Consequently, it is difficult for me to advise you. When I was a young child my parents use to give me Christmas presents every year; on occasion I really disliked the gift, however, whenever I opened a gift I would smile approvingly because even a child knows that it’s the thought that counts. Be thankful that someone loves you enough to take that first step. Besides these days the engagement ring is not permanent. If you love him, marry him; with time let him know that the ring is really not your style but that you are appreciative of his commitment. In a few years when your social and economic status changes get the ring you have always wanted. Oh and for goodness sake get in there and suggest that you go shopping for the wedding bands together so at least you like one out of two.

TRY AND APPRECIATE WHAT YOU

TRY AND APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE

TRY AND APPRECIATE WHAT YOU

TRY AND APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE

u have to wear it forever. so

u have to wear it forever. so u have to like it. I dont think ur selfish. I think u should tell ur fiancee though.

hello dear, i really feel

hello dear,

i really feel your pain. i was in a situation kinda like yours. i didnt like my engagemnt ring. and my hubby is kinda sensitive...so i gave him a few weeks, and then let him know. thankfully, he is understanding, like i expect all men to be... and he went out of his way to get me something i liked. truth is , we both expect to wear our rings for a long time, engagement or no, and we both expect to love the rings we wear... hello!!!
and who says ur selfish???darling, i dont want to see a pic of u on your engagement day scowling at the ring.... the man would be happier if u let him know earlier like my hubby did... just choose your words. U go girl..

you are absolutely right.i

you are absolutely right.i have always told my boyfriend not to buy me a ring cos of his bad taste for jewelery.so when it was time, he sent me to dubai to get our rings for engagement and wedding.i feel ur pain.

You sound like a very selfish

You sound like a very selfish babe, good luck to you and your future husband

i strongly agree with that

i strongly agree with that comment, i will advice u to go shopping with him so that u can suggest to him,,please don't make it a forceful thing just suggest

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