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Can one really tell if he is the one? It seems rather difficult because you basically have to grow, let things evolve and learn through the process. Some people start a relationship confidently without a doubt, thinking this has to be the one, but somewhere along the line things do not work out. That being said, there are certain things to look out for when you are trying to figure out if he is the one.
Does he love you?
If a man loves you, it won't be hard to know. He would purposely do things that make you happy even when it's not too convenient for him. He would be willing to take the sacrifice.
Is he proud of you?
A man who loves you and has thoughts of a future with you, should be proud of you and be ready to show you to the world.
Does he share your dreams and aspirations?
The One Should be interested in your growth, progress and be willing to be part of your dreams. Not necessarily try to change you but work with you to make you better.
Does he keep facts from you?
He would be like an open book. He would be willing to tell you about his finances, friends, and family. He would get you involved in his everyday life and run through his expenses with you. Some people say a man isn't supposed to tell a woman everything especially about finances but I think it's a myth and a man who sees a future with you has no reason to hide anything.
Does he speak about the future with you?
No doubt in the world that if a man sees a future with you, he would talk about it, not just talk about it but plan one with you.
Is he fond of you?
If he is the one, you would undeniably be a part of him. He would be happy to speak with you every time, always wants you around him and would create quality time to spend with you.
Does he always reassure you of his commitment to you?
He would take time to remind you very often of how much he loves you and reassures you of his intentions. That's one good thing about love. Love is reassuring.
Love is beautiful, and everyone has the right to experience it. If you have doubts and see clear signs that current partner isn't the one, there's no point coercing it. Everyone deserves to be loved and cherished.